Welcome to the real life musings of a Polyamorous Dominant Woman.
Wednesday, April 21, 2021
"As Seen On Quora"
I "stalk" Shilo.
in the creepy sneaky way some people do. More in that I know where
he goes, and I will sometimes go to the same place and look around to
see what he’s said or done. We don’t hide things from each
other, and it’s not a big deal anyway. We share our passwords and
I rarely go to Quora, but he’s often on it, especially lately, and
I had some “free time” today to look, so I checked out his
responses. So, what have I discovered? A few things, mostly true, but
with a lack of proper context, so
it looks weird to me. Also that Shilo doesn’t always understand WHY
I do certain things. I’ve made a chart:
HE SAYS ABOUT ME
really Loves me
been very patient with my shortcomings
you’ve been pretty good with mine too. Besides, isn’t that
what marriage is about?
has spanked me many times in the past
and you’ve enjoyed most of it.
loves to cook, and she’s a great cook, but hates cleaning
true. I told you that from the beginning
a slob. Just leaves stuff wherever. I had NO idea!
thought I told you that unless it’s moved, I can tell you
exactly where I put something, slobby or not. WHY did you hide my
was drunk on our wedding night
sure were. And you were “punished”
had more hundreds of times more experience than me
I never hid that from you, but I never expected to see it in
print. Not angry, mostly amused
washes new sheets and clothes because she’s a germophobe
I’m a bit germophobic but I wash new sheets and clothes due to
my sensitive skin
detests smoking and smokers
And Detest is exactly the word I use.
doesn't put clothes away, out of the dryer
can't hear her through the wall that separates our kitchen and
living room but she talks anyway
keep forgetting. I’m sorry.
we got engaged, I didn't have an engagement ring. But I WAS wearing
a silver birthstone ring, and I gave it to her.
still wears it, next to her wedding band.
because it means so much more to me than an overpriced diamond
like it when she TELLS me I’m getting a spanking, and I hate it
when she asks
need to remember that
while I was writing this, he asked me a question, and my answer made
him feel put off, so it looks like he might not be talking to me for
a few hours.
like he says on Quora, “my wife doesn’t hold grudges and rarely
stays angry;” and you can take that fact exactly as written.
Love Shilo in so many ways that’s it’s hard to explain, and it
can be difficult for others to fathom. He’s MINE, I’m HIS, and
I’m so grateful to have him by my side.